Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the benefit of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started

1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?

3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?

6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?

7. What do you regret the most in your life?

8. What’s the most way-out experience you have had in your whole life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?

11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?

14. What’s the highest priority for you when considering a partner – good looks, intelligence, sense of humor, or something else?

Time to get a little more personal!

15. Have you ever been caught with no clothes on in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you off the most sexually?

19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?

20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?

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